Once the bottom feels comfortable, they can go even deeper (pun intended) by crouching down while on top, allowing them to actively ride and fully bear down on their partner. However, if you’re experienced, you can make slight variations so that the top can take a more active role and control penetration. I always recommend this as the first position when you’re new to bottoming because it gives the bottom total control over the depth and speed of penetration. In the cowboy position, the top sits or lies back while the bottom sits on top of them, facing each other. Why? Because success hinges on this concept. The best of the best communicate throughout the entire process. The last, and most important, bit of advice I will leave you with is: communication. Steady movements with gradual changes are elemental.
Go slow and allow yourself to progress from there. It’s key to choose wisely which initial entry positions you start with. pain, as does open and honest communication. Little nuances and adjustments can make all the difference in terms of pleasure vs.